hairy non-binary mommy / soft dom

rene gades


nurtures your soul. wrecks your body. trains your mind.your guide into soft feminine dominance β€” where service, surrender, and authentic indie erotic art collide.

about me

rene lore


i’m rene β€” a cozy alt mommy / soft dom who turns tenderness into ritual.i'm not your stereotypical femdom β€” i’m a real, imperfect altar for devotion: eccentric, nurturing, and unapologetically human.i'm a queer, non-binary artist β€” a perpetual student with an inclination to teach. i speak some french, lose myself in languages, write, design, paint, and could wax poetic about Call Me By Your Name for hours.i guide men, women, and non-binary folks into sacred submission β€” where safety, surrender, and slow ruin become a ritual of co-creation.

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rene's den


here, you’ll find my private sanctuary β€” explicit rituals, submissive training, and a taste of the feminine-led life you’ve been craving. crafted to strip you bare and rebuild you sweeter.this is the only place where i offer full access to my alt-femme dominance.content you’ll crave:
worship at my feet and hips. power and gender play unraveled. pov rides. praise whispered against trembling skin. real ethical intimacy, real ache.
customs are currently: limited

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rene's pen


curious but not sure where to begin?
here's where i'd start if i was the one on their knees:

  • how to serve a soft dom(me): obedience, service, and surrender

  • current events: how feminine dominance becomes resistance in the face of authoritarianism

  • your first real task: prioritizing your dom's pleasure

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beyond the den


not ready to fully surrender?find the lore behind the whoreβ€”where i build rituals of feminine leadership on IG and tiktok, and offer small glimpses of my erotic art on MV.